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I have grown, a lot

For many years, I didn't realize this blog still exist. Looking back at what I have written, I kind of admire myself for being able to put my thoughts through writing, which I don't do much these days. Busy working during the day and handling family afterwork has put a toll on my physical and mental wellbeing. I intend to write more here, sharing my thought and experience, as a way to lighten the burden of the mind. Being known as a happy go lucky person, can be both good and bad. Maybe I'm seen as a people person, outgoing and quite fun to be with (self-claimed), but at the same time, it might also be a kind of weakness, unable to share the real thought and feel, bury deep inside, while showing only the good part of me. Hypocrite? Maybe. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. Whatever it is, life goes on. Work-life balance? Sounds easy on paper, but I will now spend more time to care for myself and my family because they are the only people who will stick around till the ...

Teknik Bertengkar Secara Positif

Rasulullah bersabda, "Sesiapa meninggalkan perdebatan, sedang dia berada di pihak yang benar, dibina untuknya sebuah rumah di tengah-tengah syurga." Riwayat Anas Bin Malik Tidak indahkah dijanjikan dengan sebuah rumah di tengah-tengah syurga? Sekalipun kita di pihak yang benar, namun untuk mengelakkan perbalahan berpanjangan, mengalah sahajalah. Rugikah kalau beralah? Bagi sesetengah orang yang mementingkan diri sendiri mungkin tidak munasabah jika mahu beralah tetapi apa kata kalau saya katakan ‘orang yang beralah akan menang besar kemudiannya?' Pergaduhan suami isteri akan sentiasa berlaku. Bak lagu P.Ramlee ‘Sedang lidah lagi tergigit’. Anda tidak akan sentiasa boleh berkata ‘ok’ kepada isteri anda begitu juga dia. Setiap kali pergaduhan berlaku, pasti akan ada hati yang akan terluka terutamanya hati orang perempuan yang memang diketahui tidak dapat diramalkan. Jika pergaduhan itu berpunca daripada sesuatu yang sangat kecil, maka jika kita perbesarkan, maka aka...

What To Do When Abducted

Everyone should take 5 minutes to read this. It may save your life or love one's life. Because of recent abductions in daylight hours, refresh yourself of these things to do in an emergency situation... This is for you, and for you to share with your wife, your children, everyone you know.. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.. 1 . Tip from Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do! 2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM . Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION! 3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives. 4. Women have a tendency to ge...

Anger and Love

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched line on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father.....with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions.......sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'. The next day that man committed suicide……… ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life..... Things are to be used and people are to be loved, But the problem in today's world is that, People are used and things are loved. During this year, let's be careful to keep thi...

Touching Story

SEMOGA JADI IKTIBAR…adapted from: Anonymous Saya sangat mengkagumi kerjaya sebagai guru sekolah. Sebuah kisah yang saya paparkan ini saya ulangi dari kisah benar seorang guru beberapa tahun yang lalu. Ceritanya: Saya mengajar di sekolah rendah di tengah2 bandaraya Kuala Lumpur . Saya mengajar sesi petang. Salah seorang murid saya setiap hari datang lambat ke sekolah. Kasut dan bajunya selalu kotor. Setiap kali saya bertanya tentang baju dan kasutnya dia hanya berdiam diri. Saya masih bersabar dengan keadaan pakainnya, tetapi kesabaran saya tercabar dengan sikapnya yang setiap hari datang lambat. Pada mulanya saya hanya memberi nasihat. Dia hanya menundukkan kepala tanpa berkata2 kecuali anggukkan yang seolah2 dipaksa. Kali kedua saya memberi amaran, dia masih juga mengangguk tetapi masih juga datang lambat keesokannya. Kali ketiga saya terpaksa menjalankan janji saya untuk memukulnya kalau masih lambat. Anehnya dia hanya menyerahkan punggungnya untukdirotan . Airmata saja yang jatu...

SAND and STONE

Two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey, they had an argument; and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: ”today my best friend slapped me in the face.” They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath the one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "today my best friend saved my life ". The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "after i hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?" The friend replied "when someone hurts us we should write it down in sand, where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it." Learn to write your hurts in the s...

My T-Shirt

I like this t-shirt. Bright green in colour as I never have one like this before. I prefer blue, black or yellow color but this time, I tried something different. It's good to do things extraordinary. That will give some sparks in your life. Do something you never tried. Like singing on the stage for example. Entering a competition like debate. That would give a new experience and of course, even you failed, at least you learn something new. If you success, that's the time you realize your true ability. Am I right?